rosy23 said:Are you asking am I serious and saying I need to step back and take a deep breath because I asked you for further info so I can see what you're referring to? That would be very precious. Discussion on a forum isn't just one way and surely it's reasonable to try and understand what someone is saying and how they formed their opinions, especially when claims are attributed to other posters.
Twice on this thread I've asked you to clarify comments you've made about what you've claimed others have said and both times there has seemingly been no evidence to support them. You've done it to before me in private too.
Neither of the examples you gave have mentioned ladder position. Maybe Harry and ToO were pinning ladder position on Ben, I wouldn't have a clue, but they certainly didn't say so and it could have meant many things. ToO did give examples that mentioned the first round debacle and Lids' slackness but certainly didn't mention our ladder position.
Thats how I read it. Perception is a funny thing. So what?
I have only one corresponded with you privately, so I am not sure what you are referring to. You need to clarify that.
Personally I think you requiring me to defend the minutae of my posting amounts to harrassment. At least that's how I'm feeling.