Re: Ben Cousins a tiger?
RemoteTiger said:
I apologise Premier09 - Ben Cousins is guilty - guilty of everything that he has been accused of - best exile him to lands far away. For he cannot be of any service to himself - a new club- or the AFL in general.
A few older footballers who changed clubs did help lift their second club considerably - more recently Judd, Dew and over the years Healy Ottens the list does go on.
But I forgot Cousins made a number of mistakes and therefore should be sent to purgatory for the rest of his days,
Strewth - if that was the sentence for making big mistakes in life - we would all be there - for I know of no one that has not made big mistakes in life.
As for the journos they do not investigate matters anymore they merely accept the spin from who is ever telling them - then they add their own interpretation.
Ben Cousins maybe, maybe not acceptable to play our great game - we will never know now because all of his and his managers actions have been recorded in the press as wrong - whether they were or not - we had our minds made up for us by the press.
An the worse thing about this whole saga is there are players strutting around with Premiership Medals who according to reports are as bad as Ben Cousins - but again do we beleive those reports? Oh no they are pushed under the rug - why? Because they are Victorian or because they were caught by the AFL drug testing - whatever no sh!t hits the fan here - talk of double standards - but again we only have what we are fed - nothing more - nothing less.
Don't you ever feel you are being led by the nose when it comes to current affairs, sporting news etc. etc. in Australia?
We are meant to be a Christian Nation - after all our laws of the land are based on that faith - the corner stone to that faith is forgiveness - and - I have to admit there are times I do not forgive as easily or as often as I should - but in this case having travelled the addiction road Ben has and having come clean for over 16years - I feel I have some sort of idea what he might be going through - and forgiveness is the first step to understanding - the most important part for me and I have seen it in all others is to face the demon in exactly the same environment you lived in - it is then and only then do you kick it - elsewise you are just running away from it............
By your own writing you want the best for Ben is his recovery - then why not give him the chance at that recovery by letting him play in the AFL rather than treating him like a leper in days of yore..............
RT ,I too have made my fair share of mistakes in my life and probably aint finished yet.
I congatulate you on your sobriety over the last 16 years and like I said I'm no anti drug crusader but I bet every AA or DA session you went to you didn't sit there with a smug smile on your face as if you really didn't give a stuff about the situation you were in.
I doubt back then they had hair testing but I bet you would never have dreamt to go in to a test shaved down etc.
I doubt if you had the chance to go to the US to the best rehab facilities in the world you would've gone on a coke bender and ended up in hospital.
Ben Cousins leaves himself open to this speculation through no fault but his own.
If he had come out, sat down, looked down the barrel of a camera and said all the right things and looked like he meant them, I'd probably be quite happy to have him in a Tiger Jumper and give him the chance to see if he could get back to his former glory(which I doubt)
But while he prouncing around like a cocky so and so, making documentries about himself etc I feel no great sympathy for him.
We must remember there are 15 other AFL clubs that don't want to touch him. Don't you think that's a bit strange in this "dog eat dog" world of AFL where there's a 17th team coming into the comp next year and everyones striving for every little advantage they can get.
And your quoting " there are players strutting around with Premiership Medals who "according to reports" are as bad as Ben Cousins.
Now you can't start quoting newspaper reports straight after saying "Don't you ever feel you are being led by the nose when it comes to current affairs, sporting news etc. etc. in Australia?" now that's plain silly!!
My children attend a Christian college, which doesn't make me a saint but I know all the Christian faith and beliefs and dare say until Ben shows some true signs of remorse for all his wrong doings he's going to struggle to get the compasson he's looking for