That’s the refuters point - don’t say anything. Completely remove any emotion out of that part of the game. None. 40 or 50 times a game don’t say a word despite the fact several decisions are subjective, are mistakes or are influenced by umps personal bias. Just shut up and wear it.
The fact that people consider the idea that grown men and professional athletes should show good sportsmanship and accept umpire's decisions without question be ridiculous sums up the issues with the culture of football I think.
Abuse
Abuse is
* yelling at the umpire
* swearing at the umpire
* waving your arms at the umpire
* arguing with the umpire
and then things like
* kicking or throwing the ball away in disgust
* refusing to give the ball back etc
What is not abuse is
* asking why that is a free verbally
* asking why that is a free with your arms or body language
So if I yell out and ask why was that a free kick is that abuse or not?
If I wave my arms while I ask if it's a free kick is that abuse?
If I ask why it was a free kick and the umpire answers and then I ask about that am I arguing?
How do we define a swear word? Can I say 'crap' or is that 50 metres?
Seems to me you are making something very subjective and open to interpretation while asking for more consistency. I would argue the current system is much more simple and easy for everyone to know exactly where they stand.
Using teacher violence against kids to explain why umpires are always right?
There is a difference between anbusw and what Coniglio did in most people’s opinion.
My point is about the now non-existent respect for authority. Whatever happened to the man in white is always right?
And I think you just summed up the issue there. 'Most people's opinion'. What about the people in the minority?
Abuse and offence is a subjective matter which is why the only safe policy is never question a decision. If you do you run the risk of offending someone who will penalise you.