I don't know if it a combination of experiences I have had and newspaper articles I have read lately; maybe it's the star constellation, but I have started feeling a bit underwhelmed by this city/country.
I have always been a very proud and parochial Melbournian/Australian so I am trying to work out if this place is actually not as good as it used to be, or if I am just becoming a cynical, grumpy old man a bit prematurely. Some big and small changes over the last 10-20 years that have come to mind recently include:
- Everything seems to be very expensive.
- People are working longer hours, spending less time with family and friends and more time paying off ridiculous mortgages.
- Property prices are very high. Where they are more reasonable, there are no amenities, so people are forced to drive everywhere.
- Even in the inner suburbs, people drive more than they did previously because they are busy working all the time.
- Many parents also drive their kids to school when they don't have to, presumably because of dangers that the mainstream media make out to be more common than 20 years ago, when they are actually not (admittedly, the traffic dangers are the exception).
- Fewer people walking makes neighbourhoods less friendly
- High property prices are celebrated in the media, even though higher prices probably hinder more people than they benefit. Of course, higher prices benefit a few key players that are likely to be sponsoring that newspaper/network.
- Fewer/smaller backyards and open spaces.
- Many small shops/businesses have closed. I know this has happened OS as well, but IMO the big franchises are more dominant in Australia than they are in most other countries.
- Milk bars are nearly all gone.
- The friendly family-owned butcher/green-grocer seems to be a thing of the past. There's no time to be friendly if you want your business to survive.
- Inner-suburban pubs are now almost all converted into pretentious, generic bars
- Many aforementioned bars serve schooners now instead of pints - presumably to be pretentious.
- The CBD has more violence on a Saturday night than it used to.
- We are an increasing Nanny State. There appear to be rules for everything where common sense used to be sufficient. For example, busy traffic areas are mostly down to 40km/h because of the risk that someone might J-walk. Can't the J-walker that gets hit be held accountable to their own stupidity? Clearly not, the police are cracking down on J-walkers too!
- The Monash FW is 80 from High St inbound for some reason. Nowhere else in the world would the limit be so low.
- The trains and trams are chockers.
- There are no curtain-raisers at the footy anymore.
- There used to be 2 games of footy on TV before the GF. Now there is Meatloaf.
- I am often expected to pay online booking fees for sports tickets when I used to be able to just show up at the ground early (something that was quintessentially 'Melbourne'). This is not just because events are more popular, but the media tells us we need pre-book and pay the booking fee.
- Politicians are mostly more concerned with getting/staying in power than serving their community.
- Lygon Street is not what it used to be.
- Most of the good sport is now on pay-tv.
I could go on but it is probably not healthy...
FWIW, I still think Melbourne/Australia is a far better place to live than most other places in the world, but I can't help feeling my parochialism fading. Anyone else feel the same thing or do I just need a holiday...?