CptJonno2Madcow2005 said:
Agree with everything else in your post Rosella except the above.
We are turning into a nation of whinging softies,Led by our so called Leaders at both Federal and state level on all sides of the fence.
It depends how you look at it I suppose Jonno.
My experience is when the chips are down most will stick together.
Some examples
I went through from Flowerdale to Whittlesea when the roads were still closed after the fires. I saw a forensic team at a burned house that's gate was covered in police tape. Not that long after I drove by and along with the flowers on the gate there was an Aussie flag. There were dozens of Aussie flags in front of the properties along the road. Heaps of people put in time helping those affected. Strangers were offered spare rooms in people's houses, groups of volunteers replaced fencing, hay was dumped in paddocks where the stock obviously had nothing to eat. Those who'd lost plenty put their orn grief aside to help others. Of course there is a seedier side. Some people start fires, some falsely claim compensation, some loot. I think they are a minority. There was/is a massive mentality of we're proudly Australian and we'll stick together.
A friend had a car accident not long after her husband suddenly died. She didn't have the means to replace her car so we organised a fund raising for her. Many generous people contributed in many ways, and not all of them knew her, and it wasn't long before we presented her with a near new car. Of course some exercised their right to question the cause and not participate but overall there was a massive feeling of people wanting to help.
When ladies are left widowed here they are looked after with loads of wood etc.
There is a lot of good in people when others' are down and out.
I wasn't necessarily thinking of the tough getting going from a political aspect but yet again if we're balanced we'd find they do plenty of good but the bad gets highlighted.
I wonder how people form the opinion that we're a nation of whingers. I think it's more a matter of empty cans making the most noise. It's the same on this forum. Plenty choose to rubbish and bag RFC and the players and make a lot of noise about it. I think, yet again, they'd be a small minority of the supporter base and most would be more supportive.
It might be a matter of whether we have a glass half full or glass half empty mindset. I'd prefer to focus on the good in people and am proud of how, even if it's only my perception, we stick together when needed.