I think you have an unrealistic view. Push and shoves and forceful hits with forearms, shoulders etc happen in all games between multiple players. The emphasis on Lynch is over the top. Surely you can recognise that?
Players that initiate the contact are usually - backman/taggers - trying to get under an opponents skin and put them off their game. The forwards end up getting sick of it and responding, or react like dusty when opposed to de bore. Expecting them to just meekly absorb the push/shove/striking is absurd. Lynch is a big man, a big name playing for a big club, it's very easy for the media to focus on him because it rates.
Whilst I would love all players to shake hands and help each up and console each other during games (other than grubs like Cameron/Finlayson/Miers/Zorko/McCrae/Lonie) I understand that can not happen. The game is competitive and physically confrontational, in the heat of the moment players are going to do everything to get an edge.
I just hope such bastions of fair play as yourself and ant call out all tiger transgressions and other clubs transgressions in the coming games - we can scrutinise poor behaviour to see if it passes The Big Ant test.