ATM my wife and I have a four month old at home. I'm also working from home, thank god she's on maternity leave.
Quarantine measures mean that there is no separation from bub. No outside help. No grandparents, no aunties, no uncles. No childcare, we can't even get a visit from the maternal healthcare nurse, nor can we take her there. For my wife, there's no mothers group, no visits from friends, no day where we can dump the little one off at a relatives for an hour to take a walk by ourselves. We can't even take the little one to the shopping center in a pram, we can't go down to the park, there is only us, a screaming baby and a playmat.
I'm not trying to suggest we're doing it as tough as some are on the planet. But it's a huge strain. And there's two of us. If I were to say to her, see ya later, I'll be on a footy camp for two months, she'd say don't bother coming back. If she could even summon the emotional energy to say anything.
It is absolutely idiotic to be comparing this situation to things like world cricket, or soccer etc. This is not a comparable situation to anything. Home lives, especially when you have young children (as lots of footy players do), are currently at breaking point. This is not a time you can be asking people to take a two month holiday for a game. A game!
Jesus. Think people.
Quarantine measures mean that there is no separation from bub. No outside help. No grandparents, no aunties, no uncles. No childcare, we can't even get a visit from the maternal healthcare nurse, nor can we take her there. For my wife, there's no mothers group, no visits from friends, no day where we can dump the little one off at a relatives for an hour to take a walk by ourselves. We can't even take the little one to the shopping center in a pram, we can't go down to the park, there is only us, a screaming baby and a playmat.
I'm not trying to suggest we're doing it as tough as some are on the planet. But it's a huge strain. And there's two of us. If I were to say to her, see ya later, I'll be on a footy camp for two months, she'd say don't bother coming back. If she could even summon the emotional energy to say anything.
It is absolutely idiotic to be comparing this situation to things like world cricket, or soccer etc. This is not a comparable situation to anything. Home lives, especially when you have young children (as lots of footy players do), are currently at breaking point. This is not a time you can be asking people to take a two month holiday for a game. A game!
Jesus. Think people.