Re: Ben Cousins threads and Poll [Merged]
as for your hitting rock bottom comment you may be right some may learn to control their addiction before rock bottom most dont. in fact few addicts ever overcome their addictions.
as for the tigers doing him some good well i wont go there for fear of being banned all i will so is what a bloody stupid comment.
i disagree cousins did what would allow him to continue playing footy he doesnt think he has a problem.as for his parents well they can only try but as with nearly all addicts there is not a thing they can do unless the addict is willing to admit he has a problem and let them help him. if you think parents have some sort of control over an addict or anybody you are gravely mistaken, this is what tears most families apart because parents have no say.momentai said:Don't agee. Addiction is a disease which can be treated successfully well before the addict reaches rock bottom. The thing about Ben is that he knows he has a problem. And he attempted to deal with it. But to go to the US and then to return to the Eagles and to his life in Perth, was always fraught with danger.
Frankly it is clear that his parents relinquished control a long time ago. Not blaming them but they lack the ability to exercise any control now. He needs to move and we have the abilty to provide the support that the Eagles could not. Weightman, Johnson, JON, Richo, Bowden, Lids, Mcguane, Dan Connors.. these with the rest of the team are good kids who are more than capable of 'teaming up' to do the job which is exactly what is needed.
The most important thing is this. If Ben leaves the game in these circumstances, his chances of recovering control over his own life and dealing with his guilt and recrimination while looking at 4 walls in Perth or wherever, are zip...
On the other hand with some considerable effort the Tigers can do him a world of good.
as for your hitting rock bottom comment you may be right some may learn to control their addiction before rock bottom most dont. in fact few addicts ever overcome their addictions.
as for the tigers doing him some good well i wont go there for fear of being banned all i will so is what a bloody stupid comment.