They still only got 4 points each for beating us n we didn't get 4 points taken off us coz we lost. You're doing it wrong if you're awarding us 4 points before the game just for turning up.
You need to think of it in the context of the teams that you are likely to be competing with for ladder position at the end of the year.
Here is an example. In 2020, the top end of that ladder was like this:
Port Adelaide 56
Brisbane 56
Richmond 50
During the year, we lost to Hawthorn, who finished 15th. Reverse that result, we go to 54 and our ladder position doesn't change.
We also lost to Port. Reverse THAT result, it changes to this:
Brisbane 56
Richmond 54
Port Adelaide 52
Not only do we get four extra points, Port (who finished SIX ahead of us), lose four. It alters the net difference between Port and Richmond by 8, from +6 to -2.
Reversing that result changes the positions of two sides that finished six points apart.
The very definition of an eight point game.
We'd have had a home QF against Port instead of the away one against Brisbane which we lost.
Let's leave aside the fact that we won the flag anyway.