Baloo said:
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Disco08's self imposed exile is the saddest I reckon. For something non football related.
I still think an amnesty isn't a bad idea. The ferals might be less fetal now that we're finally regular finalists.
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Agree about Disco. He was the person I thought would be good to take over the reigns on PRE. I'll be forever grateful for the time and effort he put into this site. A massive effort.
Don't agree an amnesty is the best idea. It's an easy call to make if you don't help with the moderating and probably wouldn't be affected by any carnage and abuse. There have been some absolute some real cyber bullies and abusers on here over the years.
This is an example from one person on CC's opening list.
I have met dozens of people from PRE and only one of them ever had something nice to say about you and your moderating.
The rest enjoy the site because of the regular posters, but dislike or hate you and the way you conduct yourself.You would be easily the most hated mod on any sporting site Ive read, and im involved in dozens of them.
Do you ever wonder why?
Don't go fooling yourself that because the sites popular among a group of fans that is a reflection on yourself.As aforementioned of 30 odd people Ive met they detest your methods, and the emails I got would make your head spin.Its a bit like loving the country you live in,but hate its prime minister....especially the worst most loathsome one that you can't vote out!
It's a fair spray but far from the worst I've copped. The mind boggles at the thought of him discussing hatred of me, someone he doesn't even know, with 30 odd people. Obsessed much? :hihi
He also made me aware he knew my address and that he was with a couple of people when they made an anonymous phone call to harass me. The police were involved due to threats I was receiving at the time. He told me he'd never pass my address on to the bullies..."...unless...". He also posted very ordinary comments on a website that was set up to harass and ridicule myself, other posters here and this website in general. That's just one example of the kind of behaviour I wouldn't really want welcomed back.
An amnesty wouldn't make much difference to a lot of posters, even many mentioned on this thread.
Some have left of their own volition. Some have changed usernames. Some had dual identities. One even had an accout as a female and one as a male. Amusing to watch certain people responded differently to both. Never knew if the roosters were preening their feathers for a ladyboy...not that there's anything wrong with that.
Some read but don't post. Some have passed away. Some didn't like the abuse and moved on. Some changed priorities. Some thought there was too much bullying. Some got bored. Some refused to abide by mod requests and ignored warnings.
Those who've been blocked made a fair effort to get in that situation. The rules are the same for all of us but some think they're above them and not only refuse to abide by them they go out of the way to breach them. The majority of posters on this forum don't have any issues. They are simple rules.
If people think they, unlike us mere mortals, are above the rules and refuse to abide by moderators requests then they virtually choose their own fate.
I think there was a bit of mischief in starting this thread considering many of those mentioned have been discussed in the past. It's been interesting reading just the same.