fastin bulbous said:
Me and my partner have just been offered a 700 grand loan limit. We job share 1.6 positions ( both work .8) below the average wage but get fed housing and pay no utilities. Personally I think the broker/banks are insane letting us borrow so much. I am not interested.
So in this I see that the banks are willing to let us over reach and fail as they know we are a tool to driving houses prices up further. They can just resell to another overstretching couple and win win if we lose. A fairly disgusting mind set.
MD Jazz said:
So it’s the banks fault if you decide you can borrow that amount. And the banks fault if you default?
What crazy warped thinking..I like you’re posting but that’s simply absolving yourself of responsibility.
I agree in part with some of fastin's post. But I'm kind of of the middle view on this.
A combination of banks reckless lending standards, in tandem with a significant portion of the population (over half of the population in some studies!!) that is clueless regarding money matters and barely financially literate, makes for a terrible combination.
It doesn't help that our culture has been bent so far outside the reality of what are genuine 'needs' vs 'wants' and hence, the concept of thrift is no longer as highly valued. All of these things touch on the vicious cycle that has us heading towards a day of financial reckoning.
My wife and I are mid-late 30s with two little ones and fortunate that we are in a position that we have paid our house off. We could have taken the 'right of passage' route and traveled on working holiday visas for a year or two (which we were very close to doing). But a job opportunity came up that allowed us to buy our first house in our early 20s, so we chose to take this option due to the financial security we could set up for our future life together. The housing boom was in it's earlier stages (though was already well and truly in swing - we certainly didn't buy at the bottom) and I could see that if we traveled for a couple of years and came back with no savings we would be in a far worse financial situation when we wanted to settle down and would be chasing our tails for the rest of our lives. We still live in this modest 1950s bungalow and have no intention of 'upgrading' to a bigger, flashier house.
Rather than buying into the banking sector's snake oil and marketing and using the 'equity' to upgrade our primary residence, or leverage ourselves into investment properties, or even worse (insane) - use equity in our house to buy a depreciating asset like a flash car, boat, caravan, have a flash holiday etc - we've taken the bread and butter (some would say, boring) path of paying off the house as quickly as possible and paying cash as we've saved up, to do modest upgrades and renovations to our house. My central premise has always been assessing, what are our fundamental 'needs' vs 'wants'. Once the fundamental needs are taken care of, then we can look at the 'wants'. We never own new cars, always pay cash for them (we have one reasonble car, then our 'second' car cost us under $4k and we'll drive it until it dies), never buy stuff on credit etc. A financial background very much built by growing up close to my thrifty depression/WW2 era grandparents. Living well within one's means was the central message.
We now have the freedom to take our kids backpacking with us, save for retirement, donate to charity, put some aside for a rainy day if we were to find ourselves out of work, those sorts of things. Banks want you to be a slave to your debt with them. Don't buy it. It was always instilled in me that if something being sold to you is too good to be true, it usually is. And that, you never get something for nothing. People should always keep these two thoughts at the forefront of one's mind whenever scrutinising anything to do with money and finance.